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Love Tips


Love, sex and intimacy are some of the most important aspects of life in adult men and women. Men are usually stimulated visually and by touch, while most women are stimulated emotionally. I liken it to a mechanical machine versus an electrical one. For mechanical man, the right actions get the right responses. For electrical woman if the current has not been switched on, no matter what you do, the machine will not work, or works very, very slowly, or just fakes it! This talk of G-spots and erogenous zones on women is just wishful thinking on the part of men who themselves are stimulated by touching those 'spots'.

If a woman is already 'turned on' emotionally, a touch on her finger tip or a kiss on her ear is as erogenous as anywhere else. The minimum stimulation is needed to bring her to climax and she can reach it as quickly as a man can. So the secret is the 'turn on'! What makes a woman emotionally ready for sex? Four things are most common: * Time.This, as some men fail to realize, does not mean taking an awful long time with petting and fore-play. It means building up sexual tension through the day. An intimate smile, a long, steady gaze into her eyes, a sincere compliment, a secret touch under the table at mealtimes, a phone call to tell her you miss her, flowers, or even a single flower, a slow, romantic know what I mean. * Passion. Nothing turns a woman on the way being desired by a man does. Heavy breathing, a little roughness (but not to hurt), enthusiasm. The power of being exciting to a man is heady stuff. Men who hide their passion and put on a casual or 'cool dude' act can expect an iceberg in bed! * Timing. A man's timing is vastly different to a woman's. In most young, healthy males the timing consists of any time, all the time, as often as possible! A woman has monthly cycles.At some times she won't be able to get enough; at other times she may show little interest.

A man tends to want sex to soothe him when he has had a rough day or is under stress, while a woman wants to be happy before she can relax and enjoy sex. If a man enjoys a particularly satisfying encounter with his partner, he tends to want more of the same as soon as possible. If a woman has that experience, she will often feel content and satisfied for quite a while. What about love, trust, affection and friendship? These are traits of long term relationships and marriage. For both parties these traits build a strong bond and enhance sex and intimacy. Because most women cannot 'keep up' with a man's sexual appetite, they rely on love, trust, affection and friendship to make them warm and responsive. This deep emotional commitment can lead slowly to orgasm or other satisfaction even when the timing is out and they had no immediate need for sex.

As far as physical characteristics is concerned, it is a genuine fact that most women would rather go for quality of a relationship and the satisfaction of deep intimacy than any of the male physical characteristics. Physical characteristics usually only matter in shallow, passing or temporary relationships. However, if this worries a man and damages his self-esteem, it is claimed that there are herbal remedies that can enhance him as well as improving both sexual desire and function. Although most herbal remedies are appropriate to both sexes, there are still many gender-specific needs and problems that require their own herbal supplements.

Valentines Ideas For Your Special One


Holiday love to go out, it is not surprising, you may find great deals on flowers, candy and chocolate gifts for your special person. In addition, we also have many people to celebrate a special occasion to send gifts to friends and family love, like, you may want to start thinking of ideas for your loved ones, you have to get something for everyone. Even people who only need to come up with ideas Valentine's Day gift for one person, in early to get some inspiration and then keep your eyes open your trading.Of course, the most common idea is Valentine's Day flowers and chocolate. This is the standard and not by the time the oldest, but as a gift an employee, you will get extra show you the relatives and. So you can buy these in advance or discount flower delivery system, so you can focus your efforts more Valentine's ideas, to ensure that your day is good, your dog away from home in memory of love.Some great ideas for Valentine's Day is a committed husband and wife sexy underwear and good things to eat in the evening to kill your day on the right note.

For others, you may want to insist on less inappropriate Valentine's ideas, such as Avon and recipe shower gift. A region can not go wrong, the idea of Valentine's bathing suit, because everyone likes the smell of fresh and clean bathroom and an indulgence that most women are not taken seriously. Similarly, you can also consider personal bathrobe to the bathroom, as well as your other ideas for your loved ones, it makes you feel like you love bath time, we hope to frequent basis!If you plan to make holiday do not forget your love, Valentine's ideas, including jewelry is always a good choice as well. A perfect pendant, bracelets, rings, or even blink an ideal addition to the present and let you in the most popular of the year. If you like the idea of love, advance warning, some things, such as bracelets, rings, if you have the best job, taking into account the size of the person you want to buy. Therefore, it can pay attention to your current jewelry, who wears the receiver to the circumference of your best ideas for your loved ones.

The Nine Signs on Knowing Who Loves You Secretly


As the old saying said: Standers-by see more than gamesters. It is true that many people who are closely involved cannot see as clearly as those outside when they are fall in love with secret by others. So in order to not lose the love near you, we all should know some signs on the secret love.

One, someone always has a justification to call you and the prologue usually is: where are you? Someone on the phone is very concerned about your position and your surroundings, such as seriously ask: in the mall? alone? at home? time you should be careful you may loved by secretly.

Two, you often come across a pair of eyes and your sights always have the opportunity to meet. When you find someone in the "spy on you" and you send your eye to him, he will start a number of actions, such as starting a cell phone, head down or look another side. These mean the people feel tension and want to hide something.

Three, you will encounter him at the occasions wherever both of you may join. Sometimes, you also could meet him at the occasions where are unlikely to encounter, such as on the way to is not free, while he wants to see you no matter how busy he , old schoolmate who has not seen for years calls you suddenly and asks you some current details, and emphasis to introduce him as single, and talk about single life. In most cases, his love seeds which were planted many years ago will , there is someone who happier than you when you are laugh for some joyful things. If you feel this face is extremely brilliant, that means he loves you.Six, there is a person around you who can arrive before you at anytime and anywhere you want and always willing to give you help and listen to you. That means he loves you.Seven, you are enraptured with the opposite sex and find someone's face changed and you have to change your attitude, because that person is in jealous.Eight, someone who has no some special relationship always likes to talk about his specific love next to you. That suggests that you will have a good future if you get together.Nine, someone begins to send a small gift to you, maybe a card or order a song for you… so you should attention that your love may have come to the door of you.After these signs, will you fall in love with secret by others?

How To Tell If You Are His Chosen One


As depicted in songs, poems, movies and photographs, finding true love is a one in a million chance, and in this very random world, finding the one that whom you would spend the rest of your life is indeed a very magical and wonderful feeling. Surely, the road to this true love is a bumpy one - you would be able to experience lots of heartaches, but when your guy shows these signs, then you would know that he thinks of you as his true love.If your guy has showed these signs, then, maybe, perhaps just a little bit, you could imagine what it would your wedding like. However, don't go overboard. Enjoy these moments when your guy has showed these signs. Trust me, he won't be giving you these obvious hints, if he don't mean it.

This Valentine Day – Be a Bit More Cautious


The festival for showing your love and affection to all your fellow beings is Valentine day. Off late this mutual showing of love and care has shrunk its precincts and the people in the boundaries are just the love birds.The Valentine day is celebrated more enthusiastically by the younger ones who either is in love or is in hunt for one. This day is considered by everyone as the day for proposing, accepting the long pending love proposals.The shops flutter full of gift ranging from a few dimes to unimaginable and they all do business briskly as the love birds are in no mood to not express their love through the materialistic way.But this Valentine day i.e on 14th February 2011, be a bit more cautious in dealing with your Valentine or Valentine to be. The reason is astrological as no planet up there is in a mood to shower its blessing.Mars who signifies for the love-energy although is in its sign of exaltation, is deep combust. That means the aggression with which you may approach the Valentine may back fire, your actions could be taken otherwise. Mercury which impart the knowledge to the native is also combust and this can result is choosing or proposing your valentine wrongly. The moon which signifies your mind is in association with a debilitated Ketu. The planet Saturn is also retrograde and moving in opposite direction.The Karaka or Signification of Love and passion, the planet Venus, is in association with a debilitated Rahu.Now if we try to make some scene of the above planetary position the revelation would be that this is not a very good period for all the people who are looking ahead to make a great day on the Valentines Day.

The association of Moon with Ketu which again is debilitated is the worst place for the moon to be in. But since moon remain in a sign for not more than two days the people out there can find some solace a day after the 'D' day.Now, what is to be done so that the affect of the above planetary position does not harm the native to a larger extent? Firstly be wise in choosing and proposing your valentine as the choice of your may not be good altogether. Take your time; restrict your self to mailing rather than presenting your self physically. Secondly if you are in to a relationship then there can be a possibility of loosing due to lewd action. Abstain from making lewd and sarcastic remarks as it may hurt to a greater extent that day.Thirdly have a yellow coloured thing preferably a flower associated with you on this day as this can ward you against the evils offered by the planetary position.

Single Person Can Lead a Peaceful Life


Every evening as dusk sets in, he sits in his rocking chair nursing a Scotch and listening to old Hindi film songs. The day I last saw him in Hyderabad, the strains of Mohammed Rafi's Dekhi zamane ki yaari…bichchde sabhi baari-baari….impregnated the air.But, instead of the melancholia that drips from Guru Dutt's sets in Kagaz ke Phool, there was a calm surrounding Jyotirmaya, a sense of peace and a day well spent. No broken heart here, just a man unwinding after a day at work…. His dinner is ready and waiting, his next choice out of a collection of 3000 movies in the DVD player, awaiting the click of a remote button. A book lies next to his bed in what seems to be exactly the position he left off reading it the night before. No female presence or kiddie clutter disturbs the even tenor of his existence.

Life is the way he loves it…Cut to another home in another city.Anuradha (not her real name) is a busy professional juggling career and home, handling a daughter singlehanded and loving it. Her bedroom is done up in soft, feminine colours and the books and music racks house just her choices. She savours her mornings and is extremely possessive about that time when, daughter sent off to school, she relaxes, looking at the trees outside her window, reflecting, reading the papers and sipping nimbupani. Mother and daughter have a mutually satisfactory routine and keep their weekends busy with movies and friends when they are not exploring the city. Ask her if she feels the lack of a male presence at home, and she laughs, "Male? What's that?! No, seriously, where is the space for a male in this house or in my life? Why would I want someone to make an insidious entry into my life and uproot my very existence?" Point.It's not an easy state to achieve, but once set in your routine and after you have settled life's little matters and tied the loose ends, a single person can possibly lead a far more peaceful and satisfying life if he or she sets her mind to it than many married couples.

Yes of course, at times the heart may feel lonely and twinges of regret may make their presence felt, but on the whole a life where you are answerable largely to just yourself cannot be bad.How long can one keep looking for Mr Perfect or Ms Perfect? There has to come a time when you give up looking and settle down to what you have. And those who come to this conclusion early and start building a life for just themselves are the ones who, like Jyotirmaya and Anuradha, achieve a sense of peace and come to terms with single life. And soon there comes a time when they wrap life so securely and comfortably around themselves that there is no scope left for another human entering that space.It's not a selfish or self-centred existence really; it's just a full life that gets fuller each time these singles introduce yet another passion. The kind of passions that have to be put off by others whose spirits strive to reach beyond the usual responsibilities of life.

Let's get this clear; it's not a libertine view that these singles are propagating, nor are they flying against the institution of marriage. We are talking here of people who in the state of singlehood, decide to make the best of an existence that precariously straddles the line between a satisfied fullness and an unending search for an elusive companion. Having knit their lives into a pattern that keeps them busy, fruitfully occupied and happy, they are at peace with themselves. Friendships acquire a deeper meaning for them and they are ready to go out on a limb for a friend.One may well ask what about the need for companionship, sexual gratification or support in old age and illness? Jyotirmaya has an interesting answer for this. "These are three distinct needs that once segregated, provide an amazing clarity. Friends can provide you great companionship; I have seldom seen a couple who are great conversationalists or companions after some years of marriage! Sex can be disengaged from marriage surely in this day and age! As for looking after in sickness and old age, what guarantee that children would do the needful, or even that a spouse will outlast you?" Who can refute this logic?Add to that the fact that as multi-dimensional creatures we cannot hope to satisfy all our needs in just one person.

We have so many diverse needs and aspirations, that each one of us, if we are to be fully satisfied, needs a battery of friends and companions available to us. And a single person is free to pick and choose any, at any time.Movies, books, music, artistic pursuits, social work, parties, apart from your choice of profession - contemporary life offers a wide range of activities and indulgences that consume and stimulate you enough not to actually miss being part of a couple. However, beyond all this, there is still that very natural need to connect with another adult, to have someone you can use as a sounding board, share your thoughts and passions and plan holidays with. Same sex friend is the easiest answer, one that society too approves of. And yet, there is also the need to have companions of the opposite sex, or you somewhat lose out on one aspect, one important perspective of life.

Friends of the opposite sex are just as important as same sex companions. What's wrong with that? Someone you can share some magical moments with and then retreat to the cocoon of your own satisfactory existence. It just helps complete the circle.Just because you are alone need never mean you are lonely. With a life so full with interests, friends, passions, there is no scope or time to get bored.